Absent Memories


For this posting, I have invited author Beki Propst to share a bit on her incredible story. Please check out her book , Absent Memories: Moving Forward When You Can’t Look Back. Can you imagine if her story was yours? Post your feedback as a response to this blog, and let Beki know what you thought!

The most effective way to overcome failure is to fail to recognize it. When I lost all memories of my life at age 47, I had no idea what failure was. I couldn’t remember any of my experiences or education; I couldn’t even remember the people I’d grown up with. All I knew was that I had to learn how to support myself. At first, I didn’t even know what kinds of jobs were “out there,” but I learned quickly and managed to find enough work to survive (by working two or three jobs at the same time.)

I hadn’t lost everything; I could still read. But I had lost all my social skills, so I was flying on instinct—and I soon learned that—for me at least—instinct is not intrinsic; it’s based on memories. I lost three jobs in the first five years of my remembered life. I lived in “at-will” states, so I still don’t know why I was fired. I guess some people might view those terminations as failures, but I believe them to be simply a natural result of my ignorance of appropriate behavior. I hadn’t yet learned enough to know how I needed to act and what I needed to do to keep a job.

The only way to fail is to give up. People who have read my book, Absent Memories: Moving forward when you can’t look back, tell me it’s helped them appreciate their lives—and their memories. They tell me I’ve overcome obstacles that would have caused others to give up.

Life is full of challenges, but the ability to learn keeps those challenges from being obstacles. I believe I have no choice but to continue to learn why things don’t always turn out the way I want and expect them to. If reaching a goal is seen as an opportunity to learn, missed goals aren’t viewed as failures, but as steps along the road to success.

Remember: Never give up…not even when you can’t remember what to do!

Learn more about the author at her website: Absent Memories.

Book Update!

Hey there, readers! Great news!

As we scramble to have the special edition of Powerful People Overcome Powerful Failures for our big book signing at the Mohegan Sun in Connecticut on August 29th, the cover art has JUST BEEN APPROVED!

Keep in tune here, for more updates. We’re finally going to print!

UPDATE (8/17/2007): I received copy #1 of the book for physical review and it looks GREAT! I’m proud to announce the Premier Book Signing to be held at the National Indian Child Care Association National Conference on August 29th!


Format Change-Up!

After first launching www.overcomepowerfulfailures.com as a website, I decided it was best served to host this site as a blog. And why not? So, here goes:

The book is coming! For those of you who have been asking (and that’s quite a number of you), we are proceeding forward with the book, only a few months behind schedule. I’ve begun to empathize with expectant mothers and how they must feel when people continually ask “Haven’t you had that kid, yet?” Publishing a book isn’t much different. To all of the mom’s I’ve ever asked the preceeding question, I take it back and apologize profusely.

The first serious round of edits are complete, and I understand the next step is to forward our manuscript to the publisher for their editors to begin their review. It shouldn’t be long, now!

I’m exploring the possibility of a book tour later this year. In consideration are any reasonably sized cities in which I have a guest bed or sofa on which to sleep. Of course, I haven’t asked yet, but I also plan to do a book signing at The Bookseller in Ardmore, Oklahoma. Though it changed ownership hands a few years ago, it was the site of my very first job during my freshman year of high school. Who knew someday I’d actually write a book?